Meet the Maids and Men

ElizabethMacDonald

Maid of Honor

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Elizabeth has known Kaleigh since she moved across the street in first grade. Before long, they became close friends, spending their childhood playing kick the can and riding bikes around the neighborhood with their brothers and other friends.

Since then, they have shared so many milestones, from prom pictures and graduations to 21st birthdays. Elizabeth is often considered the fourth O’Hara sibling, having joined in on plenty of road trips, family vacations, and everyday memories over the years. She also made annual visits to Kaleigh at Purdue, which Kaleigh looked forward to every year.

One of the things Kaleigh treasures most is that Elizabeth knows nearly every part of her life from her family and childhood friends to theatre friends, college roommates, and now Jacob. Elizabeth is honored to stand beside Kaleigh during an incredibly exciting time, and Kaleigh feels just as lucky to have had her by her side for so many chapters already.

OwenRickert

Best Man

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Owen and Jacob have known each other their whole lives. They grew up side by side: trick-or-treating at every house in the neighborhood while their dads followed behind with a beer wagon, playing tennis at Lifetime, and spending Thanksgivings and Christmases together. They also spent too many summers pouting their way through Bearpath swim team when they would have much rather been playing Pokémon.

As they got older, the memories continued, including taking their first shots of tequila together in Cabo. Today, they keep up a “friendly” Wisconsin Badgers/Purdue Boilermakers rivalry and are constantly dreaming up their next great business idea. Although none have taken off yet, they remain confident the right one is coming. Best buddies since birth, Owen and Jacob have plenty more memories ahead.

GretchenFarmer

Bridesmaid

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Gretchen and Kaleigh met as members of the same Alpha Xi Delta pledge class at Purdue. On the way home from Bid Day, they realized they were not only in the same major, but also lived just down the hall from each other. Needless to say, they became fast friends and went on to be roommates for the next two years.

Their Purdue memories include countless hours studying together, cheering on the Boilermakers, and tailgating at Jacob’s fraternity. Gretchen and Jacob also bonded over their shared appreciation for a Two Fella’s loaded breakfast burrito after a night out.

Since college, Gretchen and Kaleigh still constantly turn to each other for advice. Kaleigh especially relies on Gretchen, now a sommelier, for wine recommendations! Gretchen has always been there for Kaleigh, and Kaleigh is so excited to have her by her side on her wedding day.

EdChau

Groomsman

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Ed and Jacob were some of each other’s very first friends at Purdue. They quickly formed a CHEM 115 lab group with their friend Tommy and soon discovered that all three also played League of Legends.

Ed later introduced Jacob to his fraternity, Kappa Delta Rho, where Jacob eventually became a pledge. Over the years, they have sought out Korean BBQ restaurants together, and Ed and his girlfriend Kat have enjoyed going on double dates with Jacob and Kaleigh.

They’ve stayed close since graduating from Purdue, and fittingly, one of the things that first brought them together is still part of their friendship today - playing League of Legends. Ed is looking forward to many more trips and memories with Jacob in the years ahead.

MandyJanis

Bridesmaid

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Mandy and Kaleigh met during their freshman year of high school. Throughout their four years at McAuley, they spent so much time together in classes and rehearsals. They’ve always brought out the silliness in each other, especially during sleep-deprived tech weeks. On occassion, they've been told they look like sisters (or even twins!), which always makes them smile.

Kaleigh has Mandy to thank for much more than laughs and years of friendship; Kaleigh and Jacob first met at a DePaul party while Kaleigh was visiting Mandy during their freshman year of college. Mandy can’t wait to dance the night away with the bride and groom!

TommyChen

Groomsman

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Tommy met Jacob during their freshman year CHEM 115 lab, along with their friend Ed. They’ve stayed close over the years through weekly video game calls and trips together, including a visit to New York to watch the League of Legends World Championship Finals.

Tommy says Jacob has been an incredible friend through it all, and he thanks Jacob for introducing him to the classic American college experience at Purdue’s campus bars. Tommy has also enjoyed getting to know Kaleigh and returning the favor by introducing the couple to authentic Chinese food. He is so happy for Jacob and Kaleigh and excited to celebrate this next chapter with them!

MollyOstry

Bridesmaid

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Molly and Kaleigh have been close friends since childhood, when they both attended Most Holy Redeemer School. They have many memories of playdates, sleepovers, and afternoons spent together at their brothers’ baseball and football games. In middle school, they could often be found hanging out in Kaleigh’s front yard, pooling together just enough cash for the Jimmy John’s delivery driver.

Even in adulthood, Kaleigh knows she can always count on Molly, whether she needs a quick favor, a big ask, or simply a good friend. Molly can’t wait to celebrate Kaleigh and is especially looking forward to breaking out the karaoke machine from their childhood at wedding events!

MattMcCormick

Groomsman

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Matt and Kaleigh only became close friends in college, despite crossing paths plenty of times before ever moving to West Lafayette. They attended neighboring high schools, had overlapping friend groups, and Matt even went to Kaleigh’s mom, Colleen, for math tutoring - while he and Kaleigh remained merely acquaintances. They still joke that they were destined to be friends because out of more than 8,000 Purdue freshmen, they ended up in the same 20 person orientation group.

Shortly after orientation, Kaleigh met Jacob, and Matt could see how happy Kaleigh was with Jacob from the beginning. Matt expressed that throughout college, he could always count on Kaleigh for a smart math brain or a much needed laugh. Kaleigh is incredibly grateful for the reliable and fun friend that she did everything with since her very first days at Purdue. She and Jacob have loved hosting Matt for visits to Charlottesville and look forward to their next night out together!

ReannaPanagides

Bridesmaid

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Reanna and Kaleigh were each other’s very first friends in UVA’s data science master’s program. From the first week, they walked to class and cohort events together, studied side by side for exams, and even teamed up on a deep learning project.

Kaleigh loves having a friend nearby who she can do just about anything with, whether that means working over coffee, going out on Charlottesville’s Downtown Mall, or having a cozy night in. Reanna and Jacob are also a part of the same weekly pickleball league!

Reanna describes Kaleigh as understanding, a great listener, a thoughtful gift giver, and the best person to get giggly with. Kaleigh admires Reanna’s work ethic and well-roundedness and feels so lucky to have found such a supportive and kind friend so early in her time at UVA.

BillyO'Hara

Groomsman

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Billy and Kaleigh are siblings and grew up very close. As kids, they found plenty of ways to entertain themselves, from putting on their mom’s fuzzy socks and “ice skating” around the house to spending hours trading Matchbox cars based on values they completely made up themselves. As they got older, Billy remembers Kaleigh’s devastation whenever she received anything other than an A and the parties they threw in their parents’ basement - which he describes as “one hell of a ride.”

Billy is also grateful to Jacob for introducing the family to the legendary game Jackbox, which has since become a staple at the O’Hara's cottage. Kaleigh and Jacob know that he'll be hitting the dance floor at their wedding - especially when Shakira comes on!

MaeveSullivan

Bridesmaid

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Maeve is Kaleigh’s cousin, and the two have grown up together. From playing together at family parties as kids to planning their own outings to White Sox games in high school, Kaleigh, Maeve, and their cousin Marissa have always been close. Maeve and Kaleigh also attended Mother McAuley High School together, where they made some of their favorite memories through theatre and show choir, including Maeve playing the lead in Kaleigh’s senior year one act about female mathematicians.

Over the years, they’ve also traveled a lot together, from trips to Orange Beach, Ireland, and Orlando to weekends at the lake, Wisconsin, Purdue, and Oklahoma City. Maeve has also grown close with Jacob, especially after he helped her build her professional website. Kaleigh can’t imagine her wedding day without Maeve there to keep her laughing and celebrate alongside her!

TimmyO'Hara

Groomsman

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Timmy is Kaleigh’s younger brother by five and a half years. When they were kids, Kaleigh loved directing music videos, and Timmy was frequently her willing star. The two also share a guilty pleasure for kids’ movies (especially musicals) and once spent an entire rainy day watching The Lego Movie, Sing!, and Shrek back-to-back.

As Timmy has grown up, Kaleigh has loved being able to share some of her own experiences with him, from helping with college applications to preparing for interviews. Timmy is happy to officially welcome Jacob to the family, even if it means putting up with Jacob buying all the development cards whenever the family plays Catan.

MarissaSullivan

Bridesmaid

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Marissa and Kaleigh are first cousins, but since Kaleigh, Marissa, and their cousin Maeve each grew up with only brothers, the three have always felt more like sisters. Kaleigh and Marissa were born just six months apart, and with their long dark hair and matching bangs, they were often mistaken for twins growing up!

They have so many memories together, from begging their parents to turn every family get together into a sleepover to dancing late into the night during their college years. Kaleigh feels so blessed to have been close to Marissa for nearly her entire life. Marissa can’t wait to celebrate Jacob and Kaleigh's love with everyone!

NickSandefur

Groomsman

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Nick is Jacob’s younger brother, and the two have shared plenty of memories growing up together. Summers often meant tennis camps together, while the long Minnesota winters were spent building sledding tracks, playing video games, and finding ways to keep each other entertained. Even as their interests have grown in different directions and they now live in different states, they have stayed close and keep in touch regularly through an active group chat with their brother Will and longtime family friend Owen.

Nick is excited to celebrate Jacob and Kaleigh on their wedding day and has shared how happy he is to officially welcome Kaleigh as his sister-in-law!

JaneTwomey

Bridesmaid

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Jane has known Kaleigh since they were in 5th grade at Most Holy Redeemer School. They spent their tween years prank calling and playing “Dance Moms” in Kaleigh’s front lawn. Once they got their driver’s licenses, their weekend mornings began with Dunkin’ runs followed by driving around for hours chatting and laughing. Today, Jane is Kaleigh’s go to person for fashion and beauty product recommendations.

Over the years, Jane and Kaleigh have remained close friends, no matter where life has taken them. From graduating high school side by side to now navigating life as long distance besties, Jane and Kaleigh have seen each other through it all. Kaleigh cannot imagine her wedding day without getting ready and dancing with her lifelong best friend Jane!

WillSandefur

Groomsman

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Will is the youngest Sandefur brother, so many of his childhood memories with Jacob involve being the little kid tagging along. One of Will’s favorites is when he, Jacob, Nick, and Owen created a “super epic” YouTube channel dedicated to fidget spinner trick shot videos. Will also remembers playing plenty of video games with Jacob, who got him hooked on Rocket League.

Will was only 11 when he met Kaleigh, and together they created a Lego design they named “Moving Land” and founded the very exclusive “Train Club,” which Jacob was obviously not invited to join.

These days, Jacob is incredibly proud of Will and his work ethic as a college baseball player on the pre-med track. Will is so excited to celebrate Jacob and Kaleigh!